Joanimaroni wrote: othershoe1030 wrote:I think I fell asleep around page 10 of this thread last night. Round and round it goes and where it stops nobody knows.
What is the opposite of an echo chamber?
A chamber that you talk into and your words disappear without being heard. I think this is an imaginary thing but sometimes the discussions on this forum resemble such a creation.
No matter how many times oats and FT say the woman made a mistake they are not heard. They are accused of thinking her act was somehow justifiable by the opposition group.
This is another example of verbally hitting your head against a brick wall.
Personally I think the woman needs a group shelter to live in, parenting classes and of course a job. Things would get better for her and her children from that point on. Being sent to prison is just counter productive in my view as it breaks up the family further traumatizing the children.
I have volunteered with the Guardian Ad Litem people a bit and have seen horrible living conditions that exposed children to all sorts of dangers. Using that model children are removed from the dangerous situation until the parents have gotten their act together and then the family is reunited. That makes sense to me.
FT has not justified the acts of Ms. Taylor, however, Seaoat continues to question the dangerousness of the incident and has minimized the seriousness of leaving the children in the car. He questions the documented time in the car... and insists the windows were rolled down rather than just cracked.
Having been a Guardian Ad Litem you most likely have seen horrible situations
for childrento live in. There is a fine line judging if intervention and parenting classes will work. In many cases you are gambling with the child's life.
I witnessed a situation of abuse involving 18 month old twins. The recommendation was temporary removal, counseling, and parenting classes. This recommendation was vehemently protested by the maternal and praternal grandparents to no avail.
The requirements were met and the twin boys returned to the home 6 weeks later. Within a week....I watched my first autopsy on one of the twins......because the toddler was crying....his DADDY held him by his legs and head slammed him into the wall until his brain was splattered everywhere.
Seeing dead children that are victims of parental abuse changes your perspectives.
Behavioural change for adults is not always possible.