bigdog wrote:LOL I'm pretty sure that wasn't a compliment.
But I'm choosing to take it as one.
So, thank you very much.
No it was, maybe not for everyone but for you it was.
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bigdog wrote:LOL I'm pretty sure that wasn't a compliment.
But I'm choosing to take it as one.
So, thank you very much.
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bigdog wrote:Actually, I figured you were discussing a "kept" man but I was giving you the benefit of the doubt.
The secret of 48 years of marriage is that he's not my daddy and I'm not his mother. We don't tell each other what to do.
We might disagree, we might get pissed off, but in the end, he'll do whatever he wants and I'll do whatever I want. And it's over. And then we forget about it and find something to laugh about, or do something we both like to do together. Because anything else is not an option. Vows mean something.
Sorry about believing in such a quaint concept.
bigdog wrote:At this point in my life, I really don't care who might have a picture of me hidden in their computer someplace.
Actually, I don't remember ever caring that much. The main picture that was going around was one that someone took the trouble to glean from my sister's facebook page of a Christmas get together at my house. Considering the source of the picture, it didn't take a lot of smarts to know where it had to have come from originally.
I liked it. It was a very smiley picture of me from a very happy day.
Not particularly attractive, but then I'm not.
Particularly attractive that is. Never have been.
Never claimed to be.
But I'm smart enough to know how very little that matters in life.
If I could go back pre-birth and get either smart or beautiful, I'd take smart every time.
I got what I wanted.
Along with a much, much better looking hubby than most beautiful women get, and he's a keeper.
Vikingwoman wrote:bigdog wrote:At this point in my life, I really don't care who might have a picture of me hidden in their computer someplace.
Actually, I don't remember ever caring that much. The main picture that was going around was one that someone took the trouble to glean from my sister's facebook page of a Christmas get together at my house. Considering the source of the picture, it didn't take a lot of smarts to know where it had to have come from originally.
I liked it. It was a very smiley picture of me from a very happy day.
Not particularly attractive, but then I'm not.
Particularly attractive that is. Never have been.
Never claimed to be.
But I'm smart enough to know how very little that matters in life.
If I could go back pre-birth and get either smart or beautiful, I'd take smart every time.
I got what I wanted.
Along with a much, much better looking hubby than most beautiful women get, and he's a keeper.
Ahh, but beauty matters very much in this world. It's a proven fact unfortunately. Many studies done on that. People just tell them selves it doesn't matter...but it does.
bigdog wrote:Well, Dreams, since you pried into my life so closely several years ago, I have no doubt you've seen pictures of both me and my husband, so you're aware that you are lying through your teeth.
I don't intend to post a picture of my husband on this forum for you.
I enjoyed mullet fishing as much as he did, we both enjoyed boating, water skiing, scuba diving, camping, even in tents, walking up mountains and doing a lot of things that Barbie dolls can't enjoy because they might break a fingernail or mess up their lipstick. We still love traveling across the country in our camper with our two dogs. We're living the good life in our retirement.
I feel sorry for you. You don't know what it's like to have a husband who is also your best friend and your soul mate.One that has your back no matter who or what it is that is against you. So insult on.
You can't harass my children anymore so there's nothing you can do to touch me. They are all way too damn successful.
You lost a long time ago girl.
That's what losers do.
bigdog wrote:I wish I could put somebody, anybody else that knows my husband on this forum to tell you ladies what ridiculous asses you're making of yourselves. I have not been afraid of my husband having a roving eye since the first or second date that we had. If I were, I wouldn't have gone out with him on a third date. He's not made like that. Oh, he's perfectly free to look, so am I, but neither of us would ever even consider touching.
I feel for you ladies. I suppose you have been through some hard times and maybe been mistreated by spouses or men you were in relationships with. Don't go projecting your problems onto me. There's no room for that kind of mistrust in my marriage. It doesn't live here and it never has.
Our neighbors across the street have been married 51 years FYI, and she's no raving beauty either. I suspect he was very nice looking when they were young. But they still go walking and hold hands when they go down the street. I'm betting he's never even thought of another woman seriously.
There are men out there who realize that physical beauty is not the be all and end all in life. I'm not saying they are easy to find, especially today. But to imply that a woman can't keep a husband if she's not a raving beauty is pretty much defied by walking down the street of any large city and looking at the couples.
Maybe step one in finding a man like that is to not label all men as dogs who can't keep their pants zipped. That's as sexist as it gets, and probably an insult to your dad or your grandfather while you're at it.
I really do feel sorry for women who believe that way. Because unless you can learn how to trust men, you're depriving yourself of a lot.
Personally, I trust men a hell of a lot more than I do women.
bigdog wrote:Personally, I trust men a hell of a lot more than I do women.
RealLindaL wrote:bigdog wrote:Personally, I trust men a hell of a lot more than I do women.
And after reading this entire rather horrid exchange between the three of you women, I have to say (though no one asked me) that your greater trust in men is surely not misplaced.
And yes, I understand this has zero to do with which candidate you want to win the 2020 election.
bigdog wrote:Well, Dreams, since you pried into my life so closely several years ago, I have no doubt you've seen pictures of both me and my husband, so you're aware that you are lying through your teeth.
I don't intend to post a picture of my husband on this forum for you.
I enjoyed mullet fishing as much as he did, we both enjoyed boating, water skiing, scuba diving, camping, even in tents, walking up mountains and doing a lot of things that Barbie dolls can't enjoy because they might break a fingernail or mess up their lipstick. We still love traveling across the country in our camper with our two dogs. We're living the good life in our retirement.
I feel sorry for you. You don't know what it's like to have a husband who is also your best friend and your soul mate.One that has your back no matter who or what it is that is against you. So insult on.
You can't harass my children anymore so there's nothing you can do to touch me. They are all way too damn successful.
You lost a long time ago girl.
That's what losers do.
bigdog wrote:I'm sorry my satisfaction with my life choices bothers you so much Dreams. I'm sorry you don't have to be a Barbie Doll to have an extremely happy satisfying life. I understand you feel that that's just wrong. Poor you. It must be shocking. Because TV and Movies have told you something different for years.
bigdog wrote: I BELIEVE that was primarily to get a woman president elected.
A STRONG, CONFIDENT, EXPERIENCED woman like Hillary Clinton.
Sal wrote:bigdog wrote: I BELIEVE that was primarily to get a woman president elected.
A STRONG, CONFIDENT, EXPERIENCED woman like Hillary Clinton.
You say this shit so much it makes me wonder if thou doesn’t protest a bit too much.
You seem like just the type who might slip behind the curtain and pull the lever for DJT, tho you’d never, ever, ever admit it (you’d hardly be alone).
But, I’m also sure that after the past 3+ years of hell, you’d never, ever, ever do it again ...
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... unless the nominee is Warren ...
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... or Harris ...
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... or Gillibrand ...
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Vikingwoman wrote:Cat, I'm not even going to respond to the bullshit in your post. I'm not interested in anything you have to say now or about 15 yrs ago. I'll say this as I'm sure Sal will too. FU and your ugly kumquat ass. PS for the record though, you and Bill won the poll. Remember? I wasn't even on it.
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