I have clinical depression. I am not under medication for it. I was at one time but I did not like the side effects and have not taken any meds for many years. Does having depression make me less of a person and invalidates anything I say? Maybe to you,it does. Your comments seem to reflect such a attitude. I could give a shit less about your amateurish attempts to analyze others. Grow up. Stop trying to marginalize others because of your own shortcomings.
Mental illness is a disease. It is no different than the tumors on my liver which I neither want or can control. Every person in their life must face mental health issues. Whether it is a change in employment, a loss of a loved one, or abuse as a child, we are all not immune from moments of mental Illness. It is great that many find pleasure posting on a forum. I do. I find pleasure and happiness in many areas. I have been blessed with a loving framework of family and friends. However, the aging process and the realization of our mortality generally has older Americans facing mental health issues and particularly depression.
My wife's mother lived a full and happy life, but when her hands no longer worked, and she could barely move and at 90 a deep and clinical depression set in, she was put on prozac and her life found happiness and fullfillment again. There is no shame in mental illness, and if you think my observations are not seeking objective truth, then you are entitled to your opinion. However, happy well balanced people will enjoy watching their grandchildren playing in a baseball game, the sox playing in a game, or their favorite NFL team playing. when people become sullen and critical of normal healthy behavior, it is not those normal activities wherein the problem lies.