Floridatexan wrote:I'm not sure what you mean by gloating, Linda.
gloat
ɡlōt/
verb
gerund or present participle: gloating
To contemplate or dwell on one's own success or another's misfortune with smugness or malignant pleasure.
"his enemies gloated over his death"OK? We have all seen blatant examples here of forum members gloating over the Republicans'/conservatives' possible impending loss to Hillary Clinton. That's what I'm talking about, and it's ALL I'm talking about.
It's smug, all right. And it's juvenile and stupid, especially because the battle hasn't even been won yet, but even if it had been.
My stated desire to see those voting Democratic consider taking a higher road, "be the bigger man," if you'll pardon the old saw, does not in any way whatsoever indicate a willingness on my part to compromise or fence sit or float around in a bubble or refuse to take strong stands on the issues or whatever other blatant crapola certain forum members want to throw at me. It ONLY means I believe that
gloating itself does absolutely NOTHING to even in the tiniest way heal the horrible tears in the fabric of this nation -- that it is, at its core, entirely destructive, rather than constructive.
But hey, if we want the current hate-filled divisions in our country to continue unabated beyond the election or even grow deeper, then yeah, let's gloat to our heart's content if Hillary wins -- or better yet, let's start now as some are already doing:
It'll be lots and lots of fun, according to some, watching the losers lose. In fact it already is. The gloating anticipation can hardly be contained. And our forum sponsor obviously thinks so, too, as he smugly exhorts the apparent losing side to get ready to suck it up and humbly salute their new Madam President and CIC.
Yeah, let's just all rub it in, just be as malignantly smug as possible, and surely that will help bring our nation back to a place where we all respected each other and were not so filled with partisan hatred.
YOU THINK???????
No, of course we can't fix it all by ourselves -- but we most certainly never, ever will if neither side at least
tries to take a higher road than we've all been on for too long.
It's all about that one little candle thing, remember?
I hope this explains my position for you a little better, FT, Once more: ALL I am talking about is the gloating. That's ALL this thread was intended to be about. Please refer back to the title.
And I'll just add that maybe we could all take a lesson from the sportsmanship we so often witnessed and admired in the just-completed Olympic games. Not a lot of blatant gloating on the part of the medalists, now was there?