ghandi wrote:
It's impossible to be a racist after 20+ years of military service.
The best man at my wedding was African American. Still one of my best friends. Does that make me a racist? dreamsglore thinks so. I don't hate black people. I despise anyone who will not work for a living, expects a handout, shoots people in drive bye's because they were disrespected, home invaders, loud music out of cars..............these things are not race specific. dreams imagined that they are. Just like her racist big dog remark on another thread today.
I hear you, man. Of course, I don't know what your MOS was, but my brother's life depended on men of all ethnicities in Force Recon, as have all of my friends who have been -- and are -- in military service. There is simply no room for racism in the service.
I grew up in White Town, USA. Never heard the N-word in my life before I moved to Pensacola (when I was 32 I think??), where I received my race-relations education. And what an education it was. Changed my whole life. Now, I'd taken race-relations courses at university, but my very small college town was even smaller and more white than my home town, so... you get the picture. Experience is the true educator.
We lived South of Bagdad (which was technically in Milton), and our friends and colleagues, a Black couple, refused to come to our home (or more specifically, to our neighborhood) for BBQ supper out of fear of coming into our neighborhood, which was very nice but in retrospect, all white. I didn't blame them after hearing the things I did from the neighbors, and after one fateful experience in the grocery. I asked them later why the hell they didn't tell us what we were getting into, and they told me that I had so much scientific data on how to best avoid hurricane damage that they didn't think we cared about the neighbors.
Never had to think about any of that before. As I said, I received my education in Pensacola.