My daughter went to school Friday! Around lunch they were preparing to go to Panama City for a game ! Before they got on the buss they got news that a child of 15 hung himself -committed suicide .
The text you never want to get from your child --mommy a friend of mine committed suicide --nervious as I was my first question who hun someone in band ? No my friend in Criminal justice class --The whole buss is crying mom , we are going to dedicate our band night to him.
I told her try to get if off your mind I know its hard but try--she said mom we will be fine but im afraid after the game it will hit us again mom.
I told her just try to calm down--she got home around midnight she came In and I was concerned --I said hun did you know him well ? yes mom . Then she told me I talked to him all the time he is on my face-book--showed me his pic--15 years old couple of months ago he made a video with him playing guitar singing Stand by Me--wont you stand by me.
I had to talk this out with her ! Did he ever talk to you about anything ? She said yea once he told me he felt like killing himself -I said what did you say back! she said I told him not to do that because people who loved him would miss him and you don't want to do that !
I asked her did he tell you why --she said yes something about his dad or step dad or grandpa-I cant remember she said. I told her didn't we have this conversation a few weeks earlier about if your friends or anyone talked this way you should report it to someone ! she said yes mom but sometimes he made us laugh - just made jokes -most the time he was happy mom--we didn't know he would do this.
Theres rumors going around the school---The last day he went to school he went into the class upset that morning and his teacher told him to get a grip and kept calling the child out like kept telling him leave the crap at home which made the boy more upset! The teacher did this in front of the class--then I had learned children at school was awful tword him--the R.I.Ps on his FB prove that --some read---I don't care what people said about you I loved you
So then they have these groups you can join I guess -I looked and one of his groups was called -Bullying--so I went there only to find children posting over and over I want to kill myself I cant take it anymore-Geeze I thought he joined to get help --there is no help there just kids trying to cheer up other kids--im like isn't there a site on the computer with a whole bunch of adults trying to help these kids --diff--ones posting they want to kill themselves:(
yes I was searching trying to figure out how a 15 year old with a girlfriend and wasn't bad looking would do such a thing and well I never did figure it out other than he was bullied at school--and maybe some home issues
So this morning my child says to me ! today will be hard mom --I said why? She said I have Criminal justice this morning and then my mind clicked Ohhh I said --try your best not to get upset all the children have to deal with this just try not to get upset ok--she said ok
Now ! I was put on the spot , She hasn't had to deal with a loss like this before a class mate ! And as a mom you don't really know what to say to your child ----My daughter has been bullied but we taught her to be strong and we take up for her when this has happned to her !
This is very sad --My prayers go out to this childs family 15 years old and im still left with the Question of WHY which bothers me .
I just want the schools to help --to instead of telling them to shut up --talk to them or send them in the right direction so someone can help the children .. Im sad about this - this boy was 15 in tenth grade:(
The text you never want to get from your child --mommy a friend of mine committed suicide --nervious as I was my first question who hun someone in band ? No my friend in Criminal justice class --The whole buss is crying mom , we are going to dedicate our band night to him.
I told her try to get if off your mind I know its hard but try--she said mom we will be fine but im afraid after the game it will hit us again mom.
I told her just try to calm down--she got home around midnight she came In and I was concerned --I said hun did you know him well ? yes mom . Then she told me I talked to him all the time he is on my face-book--showed me his pic--15 years old couple of months ago he made a video with him playing guitar singing Stand by Me--wont you stand by me.
I had to talk this out with her ! Did he ever talk to you about anything ? She said yea once he told me he felt like killing himself -I said what did you say back! she said I told him not to do that because people who loved him would miss him and you don't want to do that !
I asked her did he tell you why --she said yes something about his dad or step dad or grandpa-I cant remember she said. I told her didn't we have this conversation a few weeks earlier about if your friends or anyone talked this way you should report it to someone ! she said yes mom but sometimes he made us laugh - just made jokes -most the time he was happy mom--we didn't know he would do this.
Theres rumors going around the school---The last day he went to school he went into the class upset that morning and his teacher told him to get a grip and kept calling the child out like kept telling him leave the crap at home which made the boy more upset! The teacher did this in front of the class--then I had learned children at school was awful tword him--the R.I.Ps on his FB prove that --some read---I don't care what people said about you I loved you
So then they have these groups you can join I guess -I looked and one of his groups was called -Bullying--so I went there only to find children posting over and over I want to kill myself I cant take it anymore-Geeze I thought he joined to get help --there is no help there just kids trying to cheer up other kids--im like isn't there a site on the computer with a whole bunch of adults trying to help these kids --diff--ones posting they want to kill themselves:(
yes I was searching trying to figure out how a 15 year old with a girlfriend and wasn't bad looking would do such a thing and well I never did figure it out other than he was bullied at school--and maybe some home issues
So this morning my child says to me ! today will be hard mom --I said why? She said I have Criminal justice this morning and then my mind clicked Ohhh I said --try your best not to get upset all the children have to deal with this just try not to get upset ok--she said ok
Now ! I was put on the spot , She hasn't had to deal with a loss like this before a class mate ! And as a mom you don't really know what to say to your child ----My daughter has been bullied but we taught her to be strong and we take up for her when this has happned to her !
This is very sad --My prayers go out to this childs family 15 years old and im still left with the Question of WHY which bothers me .
I just want the schools to help --to instead of telling them to shut up --talk to them or send them in the right direction so someone can help the children .. Im sad about this - this boy was 15 in tenth grade:(