2seaoat wrote:My wife has gotten very good at grits with easy over eggs which I have been eating since I was a kid. ...
Used to love that myself, as well, 'Oatie' with the eggs over easy and bacon crumbled in. Some years ago I discovered putting a good dose of Tapatio hot sauce over it makes it really good! .. mmmmm! Had to mostly quit the grits though ... empty carbs. Not on my current diet except every great once in a while. I've come to realize I need to stay as fit and healthy as I can at this point in my life.
Casinos .. they bore me. I never really got into gambling, but for the occasional kitchen table poker for pennies game with family and friends. Each to his own.
Keep your chin up though and enjoy your last months/weeks/days as best you can. It comes to us all some day.
My wife is Stage 4 with bone mets only at this time so far as they can tell and has been NED for almost two years now.
(Another Pet scan tommorow, actually ... twice a year. Fingers crossed ... always!) The meds are pretty tough on her though as are the physical imitations imposed by her laminectomy and titanium rods in her back. She's not even 60 yet, so quality of life is very important to us nowadays. The docs say the prognosis is good for 5, 10, 15 .. who knows how many more years what with all the new treatments that might be developed in that time, so that gives us further hope. But despite the stats and what the doctors tell us, we are also acutely aware things could take a turn at
any time as at least one of her oncologists has cautioned us. Cancer can be funny like that.
Much thanks to her Japanese-Brazilian spinal surgeon at MD Anderson. Nine+ hours on the table. Really messy, nasty tumors so they said afterwards, as tumors go. Man, what a great guy though .. on a personality level I mean, not just his surgical skills. Just truly the nicest fellow you'd ever want to meet. Really makes ya question our society and who we choose to celebrate as heros or whatever ... pop stars, football players, etc. She'd have surely been in a wheelchair now had we not found that guy as quickly as we did. The spinal compression was on the verge of severing her spinal cord when it was finally found out.
(Damn incompetent doctors with Pensacola Baptist Health Care .. I have nothing good to say about Baptist here.) We found out on a Tuesday, got the runaround about surgery (3 weeks Baptist said) ... so I self-referred her to MD Anderson via the internet on Thursday afternoon complete with a copy of her MRI and other records, Dr Tatsui's NP called us on Friday afternoon and said "can you be here Monday?" Apparently they were quite aghast at what they saw on the MRI. I bolted a small sofa into the back of our minivan and headed straight over there. We must have looked like the redneck ambulance. We saw Dr Tatsui first thing Monday morning, and they did the surgery on Tuesday. It was
that critical. And of course a long course of radiation following the surgical recovery. Needless to say, I've spent more time in Houston since than I ever imagined in my life I would.
I hate hospitals, though. Slept in her room in MD Anderson for three weeks straight. They let me. Hate being in hospitals, though... always have. Just something about it .. the lighting, the smell, I don't know ... just the whole environment. I can only hope I go with a big massive heart attack, stroke, or some major accident. But we don't necessarily get to choose, do we?