My wife and I lived in a 4k square foot house on an acre most of our child rearing life, and today have probably the smallest house of anyone on this forum. It is a home that is 150 years old, and has had the kitchen and a bedroom added to the house over that 150 years as a famous person lived in this house at one time. Our floor in the kitchen which was added on is uneven and settled. Ten years ago we were paying 13k a year property taxes, which would be 20k today, yet the house we live in now has a property tax bill of less than 2k. We used to get a new car through the business every three years, then that one went to wife, then that one went to oldest child, and then youngest child. Now we drive a six year old car and a ten year old car. We paid 2k a month in food, golf in at country club membership, and had a non resident membership at tiger point...... no more. We paid mortgages on second homes, and taxes.....all gone. We still have rental properties, but they cash flow and do not impact our downsized life. We do not golf anymore, or rarely for obvious reasons. We still socialize with the same groups and nobody thinks less of us for our downsized and simple happy life. As I get sicker, I strangely get happier.......a simple golf cart ride in paradise, or clearing land in Santa Rosa by hand enjoying the natural beauty around us......I also am unable to drink anymore, yet I laugh and socialize with others as happy as I ever did drinking. Yes you can downsize and live within almost any budget, but when my friends have $1500 a month property taxes on their home which they want to retire and thought a million in their 401ks would give them 50-70k passive income for retirement, and they are getting 10k.....it is not simply living within your means......it is having wall street and the banksters snooker America to switch from dollar certain traditional pensions to the trickle down manage you own money flim flam.......they either have to give up their homes, or work.........it is the great American scam.