One time when I was in high school, I went to the Fair with others.
The fairgrounds at that time was on Fairfield Dr (where the street got it's name from).
There was a parking lot behind the fairgrounds and that's where we parked.
We then started walking around the fence to get to the front entrance where we intended to pay the small entrance fee.
As we approached the fence at the back, I walked over to it and put hands on it to look at what was going on inside the Fair.
Almost immediately, a uniformed Escambia County Deputy grabbed me and said "so you think you're going to jump the fence to get in, huh, smart ass".
(I learned later that other teenagers had been doing that, jumping the fence to get in free).
But at the time I knew nothing about that and I tried to tell the cop that I had no intention of jumping the fence. But when I did, that just pissed him off more because he thought I was lying to him.
With him still grabbing me by the arm, he then says "I'm going to teach you a lesson, punk". And then he dragged me around the whole side of the fairgrounds until he got me to the front entrance. He then handcuffed me to a post right beside the entrance and said "I'm going to leave you here to think about what a lying punk you are".
He left me handcuffed to that post for more than a half hour. With everyone who was in line to enter the fair gawking at me the whole time. Some were people I knew.
From that day, I have had a fear and a hatred for any kind of uniformed cops. And that feeling is still with me.
On the other hand, behind the houses across the street from where I live is where the hood begins. And about two blocks from where I live is where Jamal Lee once lived.
Jamal Lee was the gangbanger who got a riot started at the Rave theater on W Street. After the riot moved across the street to the Burger King, Lee shot and killed another gangbanger in the parking lot. He was never convicted of it because all the other gangbangers who had agreed to testify against him decided not to at the actual trial. Why? Because the "no snitchin" nonsense that was so big at the time convinced them not to. And for that reason Jamal Lee was never punished for the murder.
The point of me telling you this, is that even though I have not wanted to have anything much to do with cops since that incident at the fairgrounds long ago; I realize that IF THERE WERE NO COPS, that hood behind the houses across the street would have overrun my house and done me in long ago.
For me, cops, like government, are nothing but a necessary evil.
There are times when I need cops just like there are times when I need government. But I would never turn my back on either. And I never want to "make eye contact" with any of it.
Instead, what I've found to be the best policy, is to try to stay clear of cops as much as possible. Just like I do the government. And just like I do the criminals.
I have to co-exist with all of it. But I don't have to be in love with any of it.
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