Z,
I think it is more complex. One of my best friends as a kid went to a Catholic Military school in high School, was accepted in Annapolis and became a Navy officer and put in a 20 year career, and left and joined a fortune 500 company and worked 15 years in the private sector and just retired raising a family.
My son's friends who enlisted after high school are all single, cannot hold a job, and to the last one of them they fooled around with school for about 5 years and never got their degrees. Those who did marry got divorced. I have known these kids since they were 8, and they just seem broken to me.
How do we get 1/3 of our homeless to be veterans? Are we not providing better attempts to transition out of the military into careers. My banker's son is in the airforce as a air traffic controller. He will go into civilian air control and get credited 8 years credit for his military service and he will put his 20 years in, but he knew what he wanted from the military before he enlisted, just like my boyhood friend. Should there be a plan for every kid to get them back into the economy after service. It seems like this is a major failure.