bigdog wrote:
As for atheists, I don't get why what church people believe offends them so very much that they go vocal with it. Someone preaching a Non-belief boggles my mind. I'm not necessarily speaking to the people on this forum-I have a family member who is a member of atheist organizations. Why? If you believe in nothing, that's fine. But having meetings about not believing- LOL. Life is short guys.
As an atheist, I freely admit that some of us are obnoxious about it. I never worry much about if someone believes or not, as long as they're a good person. I'm only vocal about it if the person is overbearing with their religion and try to force it on me. But I know what society I'm living in here in the South -- casual references to prayer or whatever aren't going to set me off. I'm not one of those atheists who get ticked off that "In God We Trust" is on our coins or whatever, and half the time I say "Merry Christmas" because it's what we call the holiday, and it doesn't
matter. Everybody talks about Halloween but nobody believes in the Great Pumpkin... well, except that one kid, and he's a little odd.
I think the atheists who do get overbearing about it just get fed up with the constant barrage of religious stuff. If you're a believer, you don't notice it, but if you're a non-believer you soon see that it's
EVERYWHERE -- billboards, tee-shirts, half the newspaper, everyplace. You can't get away from it, and it gets old. Ever have a cousin who's
really into something that you're not interested in... like, a "Star Wars" cousin or a "Batman" cousin or a "Lord of the Rings" cousin or somebody who's really into the band Rush or whatever? Even if you don't really dislike those things, you don't want to get stuck sitting next to that cousin at Thanksgiving, because you know what they're never-gonna-shut-up about. Well, in Mississippi, 85% of our society is that cousin, but for Jesus. It
never stops, you can hardly get a break from it. When you meet a Mississippian, the first thing after "Hello" and exchanging names is "What church do you go to?"... followed by witnessing if you don't have an answer. So, it does wear on people after a while. I get the reason for backlash, although I try to avoid doing it.
But, I've never joined an "atheist group" or whatever. That's always seemed against the point. One advantage of not going to church is freeing up one's time, so... why screw that up by having to go to meetings?
Then it becomes a hobby. I don't believe in God, but I don't believe in unicorns, either... it's not something I have to constantly think about and keep disproving.