So I guess if a woman isn't a 10 her life sucks..sucked ?

http://www.henrymakow.com/lament-of-an-imperfect-10.html


We talked and laughed for hours and he became attracted to me
as a person and because we had become intimate to a degree, he felt he
should marry me because "it was the right thing" given the
things we had done...but once marriage and children set in...it was
obvious he was not attracted to me. We had very little sex.


After all...I was not a perfect 10 and he was 21...so even though I loved sex as a young woman
(and still do I can count on one hand how many times I told him no in
our 30+ years of marriage...) I was denied my desires
because
he was filling his with a magazine, image from someone on the street or
our friends from church that were a "perfect 10."


Now he is 52 and doesn't have as much desire anymore and I am beginning to fear my sex life is almost over. And that pains me because I feel I was not able to live totally as a woman because I was denied when I was young and now denied as I am getting old.

Somebody posted some good advice in the comments section...you gals should try this.....

DEAR ABBY: So often I read about troubled marriages in your column. May I
share with you something that my husband and I started doing that has
transformed what I thought was a good marriage into a blissful one?One
day, after complaining that we had no quality time together -- we rarely
talked, much less made love -- my husband suggested we turn off the
television and offered to give me a massage.
Ever since, four or five times a week, once the children are in bed, we
go into our bedroom, take off our clothes and give each other long
massages. Sometimes we spend the entire time in conversation, other
times we savor the peace and quiet. Sometimes we make passionate love;
other times we fall asleep naked in each other's arms, completely
content.
It doesn't matter how it turns out; it's wonderful and it has made the
rest of our lives less stressful and more enjoyable. Our sex life is
better than before the children came, and we sleep in the nude more
often.
I hope you'll print this. More marriages would take a turn for the better if couples made time for each other and discovered the wonders of massage.

Some of the happiest and non 10 women I have had the pleasure of knowing learned early in life not to worry about an index, or what other people think is beautiful......and sexual intimacy has very little to do with looks.....it is between the ears.

NO TV in the bedroom! And that should probably include no computers, cell phones, etc.

2seaoat wrote:Some of the happiest and non 10 women I have had the pleasure of knowing learned early in life not to worry about an index, or what other people think is beautiful......and sexual intimacy has very little to do with looks.....it is between the ears.

You should tell Gen.Petreus that and all the other men that cheat on their wives.

You should tell Gen.Petreus that and all the other men that cheat on their wives.

I am really not the person to tell anybody how to lead their life, but I have never cheated, and I have always seen somebody who cheats as a weak person. Weak people do not make good generals, but througout history from Anthony to Ike.......generals have cheated, and they seem to have done just fine. If I was not happy, I would simply discuss with my wife other options......but to live a lie.....life is too short for all that wasted energy.