Vikingwoman wrote:Everybody loved Neko and hated you. You were always starting fights w/ her over your family and posting paragraphs about it telling all your business. I remember people were sick of you always trying to put her down. She was a nice person and very kind. When she died you still had evil stuff to say about her and your husband didn't even attend his own sisters funeral. You're a real piece of work.
MMMM-I missed this one earlier today. You attacked my husband, didn't you? First of all, the only reason we knew Neko was sick was from reading Joanie's posts on this forum. We followed them closely, because not a soul in my husband's family had enough class to let him know his sister was dying. We learned from Joanie that Neko had died. That's how my husband found out his sister died, because neither of his brothers bothered to call him and tell him. Not EVER, by the way. We then followed the Jacksonville papers and learned she was cremated and there would be a family service at some future date. She died in August, and I believe that did not happen until October. We did not know about it in advance. None of my husband's brothers, uncles, aunts, or anyone else in the family bothered to let him know the date before hand. Again, we learned about THAT from the forum.
My husband also did not go to his younger brother's funeral either, as we only learned he had died from my sister who found it out from an old friend online. That's because my sister and my husband's brother used to date. Which is actually when SOME of the asinine crap in this family began, back in 1969, FYI. It's been a damned Hatfields and McCoy's thing ever since and my husband and I married each other in 1971 and have been in between ever since. Our mothers despised each other. You have no idea how many birthdays our kids had when we could only invite one side of the family over. But we were able to get through all of it by remembering that they were no part of our marriage at all. Period. No control allowed. At any rate, my husband still planned to go to his brother's funeral, but did not learn the time until we picked up the newspaper and it was already going on. No matter. We were told later that he did not want my husband there.
So really, f--ck you and the horse you rode in on Dreams. I've told you for years you don't know a damned thing about what brought this forum garbage on, and you still don't. Suffice to say, my husband's family has never been advertised as the most loving, functional family around. Far, far from it. In the 48 years since we've been married I never once saw any of Neko's brothers hug or kiss their mother at all, nor she them. Neko reserved her affection for arriving in town or leaving town.
That's why he didn't go to his sister's funeral.He did NOT know when it was.
LEAVE MY HUSBAND OUT OF THIS. He's the one who has been the victim of most of this crap from his sister, and he damned sure never deserved it.