Oh, there's a difference. Some of it's good, some of it's bad.
Overall, I love the South. I'm not proud of a lot of our history, and I'm embarrassed that we've got so many truly stupid, nasty people... but, I love our climate, our landscape, our heritage of literature and music (pretty much all American music has its roots down here... and almost all of it's from Black people). We do have a laid-back homeyness that's good. There's a lot of good about the South... you just have to sift through some really ugly muck on the way to finding it.
But as for statues being "heritage"... nah. Those statues need to come down, and that flag needs to go into a museum. That's not our "heritage" -- that's a mistake we made that a lot of people are too insecure to admit is a mistake. I don't know why they want reminders of our worst moments. It's like having a really good family full of artists and writers and great cooks and just really creative people, and when it comes time to build a statue to one of 'em, everybody goes, "Ooo, let's make it a statue of Grandpa Jedediah, who had carnal relations with more pigs and sheep than anybody in Piddleshit County!" I mean, it makes no sense.
Those statues of Lee and co. are just there to intimidate black people. This thread on Twitter explains it pretty well. I don't know why we'd want them when we could have more statues of Robert Johnson, Howlin' Wolf, Eudora Welty, William Faulkner, Tennesee Williams, Jim Henson, Oprah, Elvis, B.B. King, James Meredith, Newt Knight, Fannie Lou Hamer, Richard Wright, Muddy Waters... hell, there's a lot of people the South could be more proud of than Robert E. Lee. And I don't even hate Robert E. Lee -- he was a conflicted man, and he was a brilliant general, but he fought on the wrong cause, and he got thousands of Southerners killed for nothing. I can understand not despising him completely, because he was complex... but, he doesn't need a statue, nor to be revered. The South needs to let go of that war already. The way Germany did with their big mistake.